I cannot recall the exact moment that my daughter and I had our first talk about money. My guess is that it probably occurred about the same time that she realized that she wanted something. Once kids start asking for things it is impossible to avoid discussions about money.
My wife and I try to keep things as simple as possible for a 3 year old (“3 and a HALF” as she constantly reminds us these days). For young children the values of earning, saving, planning, and working hard are the most important things to focus on. Here are some basic guidelines that are generally helpful for young children:
Take the time to talk about money. Explain to them how you pay for things at the grocery store. In very basic terms you can walk them through the buying process. Let them pay on occasion. This is also a good social skills activity.
Start an allowance once they reach grade school. Choose a set allowance and set basic guidelines for their expectations to receive an allowance. This is a great opportunity to help them start managing money.
Reward saving. If your child wants something it is important to give them a chance to save for it. Even if you have not started an allowance, younger children can use their piggy banks as a personal saving account. Take them to the bank and let them count their money. Then use the reward process to let them purchase something they have wanted. Delayed gratification has its benefits.
Be a good role model. You do not have to feel like a financial genius to model positive financial behaviors for your children. However, you do need to feel comfortable with money and be prepared to practice what you preach when it comes to money matters. If you are not completely comfortable with managing your money, take the time to learn. Your personal financial situation will benefit and your children will be observing smart money related behaviors such as budgeting, saving, planning, and avoiding debt.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Understanding the Family Economy
As a parent of a preschooler I realize as my daughter grows older it is essential that she learns about the economy at an early age. No, I don't mean the U.S. economy. That is hard enough for most adults to understand. Even more difficult for some politicians to grasp. The most important economy for young children to begin learning about is the family economy.
Toddlers can begin getting exposed to money through piggy banks and playing with coins.
Cautionary note: Just do not turn your back on them or you may suddenly find coins disappearing into mouths. Luckily we narrowly avoided a trip to the emergency room with our daughter!
As kids enter the preschool years you can help them continue to identify different types of money. Parents can also help them begin to understand the difference between basic needs and wants. Sometimes I find myself needing a refresher course in that area as well. The concept of earning money is also an important lesson to be learned during the preschool years. Kids can be taught about the reasons that mommy and daddy go to work. They also need to know that everyone in the family has a job. Their job is to simply be a kid. The primary occupation of children is to learn, to play, to honor their parents, and to go to timeout when they don't.
Young children do not need to know everything about recessions, stock market trends, interest rates or federal bailouts. However, they do need to understand their role in the family economy.
Toddlers can begin getting exposed to money through piggy banks and playing with coins.
Cautionary note: Just do not turn your back on them or you may suddenly find coins disappearing into mouths. Luckily we narrowly avoided a trip to the emergency room with our daughter!
As kids enter the preschool years you can help them continue to identify different types of money. Parents can also help them begin to understand the difference between basic needs and wants. Sometimes I find myself needing a refresher course in that area as well. The concept of earning money is also an important lesson to be learned during the preschool years. Kids can be taught about the reasons that mommy and daddy go to work. They also need to know that everyone in the family has a job. Their job is to simply be a kid. The primary occupation of children is to learn, to play, to honor their parents, and to go to timeout when they don't.
Young children do not need to know everything about recessions, stock market trends, interest rates or federal bailouts. However, they do need to understand their role in the family economy.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
The A-B-C's of Behavior Change
In order to teach others valuable money management lessons it is essential that you model positive financial behaviors at home with your kids. Children learn through observation. The day to day management of personal finances and routine conversations (or arguments) about money are constantly being witnessed and reviewed by inquiring minds. Think about the important lessons that you learned about money as a child. What events or money lessons helped shape your views about money and wealth?
Next, take a moment to review where you currently stand as far as your financial life plan is concerned. Are there any financial behaviors that you would like to change? For the majority of people the answer is a resounding YES! That is why, prior to jumping into learning activities for kids, it is important that us grownups take a moment to review the "ABC’s of Financial Behavior Change".
Most people find it difficult to give up or change things that are familiar. For many people seeking financial change, negative financial behaviors occur on a regular basis. Since negative financial behaviors are usually present for long periods of time it often helps to understand the characteristics of the behavior itself.
A very simple yet effective method of assessing financial behaviors is called the "ABC" approach. Behavioral psychologists typically use this method to make observations on the Antecedents, Behaviors, and Consequences of the behavior that needs to be changed. In other words, "What comes directly before the behavior?", "What does the behavior look like?", and "What comes directly after the behavior?"
This approach is relevant to the financial literacy discussion because poor financial behaviors need to be replaced by positive alternatives. For example, lack of organizational skills and budgeting (antecedent) could lead to the behavior of overspending. The resulting consequence is often credit card debt as a result of living beyond one's means. To change this cycle you need to alter the behavior. Once you recognize fear or avoidance related to establishing a spending plan (a.k.a. "budget") you need to stay focused on the short and long term benefits of financial freedom. The resulting consequence could be a small reward such as dining out or a trip to the movies. Of course, the ultimate consequence is financial freedom which allows people to use money to help accomplish life planning goals.
The ABC process is very basic, but with financial planning you sometimes need to take the baby steps before you run the race to financial freedom. Take a few moments to analyze your problem financial behaviors. Try to identify any patterns. If there are consistent antecedents and/or consequences, then you should have a plan in place that will target them in order to increase or decrease the target behavior. The ultimate result will be financial freedom. Most importantly, you will also be modeling positive financial behaviors for your children.
Next, take a moment to review where you currently stand as far as your financial life plan is concerned. Are there any financial behaviors that you would like to change? For the majority of people the answer is a resounding YES! That is why, prior to jumping into learning activities for kids, it is important that us grownups take a moment to review the "ABC’s of Financial Behavior Change".
Most people find it difficult to give up or change things that are familiar. For many people seeking financial change, negative financial behaviors occur on a regular basis. Since negative financial behaviors are usually present for long periods of time it often helps to understand the characteristics of the behavior itself.
A very simple yet effective method of assessing financial behaviors is called the "ABC" approach. Behavioral psychologists typically use this method to make observations on the Antecedents, Behaviors, and Consequences of the behavior that needs to be changed. In other words, "What comes directly before the behavior?", "What does the behavior look like?", and "What comes directly after the behavior?"
This approach is relevant to the financial literacy discussion because poor financial behaviors need to be replaced by positive alternatives. For example, lack of organizational skills and budgeting (antecedent) could lead to the behavior of overspending. The resulting consequence is often credit card debt as a result of living beyond one's means. To change this cycle you need to alter the behavior. Once you recognize fear or avoidance related to establishing a spending plan (a.k.a. "budget") you need to stay focused on the short and long term benefits of financial freedom. The resulting consequence could be a small reward such as dining out or a trip to the movies. Of course, the ultimate consequence is financial freedom which allows people to use money to help accomplish life planning goals.
The ABC process is very basic, but with financial planning you sometimes need to take the baby steps before you run the race to financial freedom. Take a few moments to analyze your problem financial behaviors. Try to identify any patterns. If there are consistent antecedents and/or consequences, then you should have a plan in place that will target them in order to increase or decrease the target behavior. The ultimate result will be financial freedom. Most importantly, you will also be modeling positive financial behaviors for your children.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Financial Literacy Requires Knowledge and Action
Smart financial decision making begins with financial education. Money lessons begin early in life. Sometimes they are subtle. Sometimes these lessons are positive experiences. Sometimes they are painful.
The purpose of this financial literacy blog is to empower parents, teachers, and other roles models to share basic financial education tips with the developing minds of our communities. It is also designed to foster smarter financial decision making for parents and teachers themselves. Children learn through observation. It is impossible to instill positive financial behaviors in them when the adults in their lives are making poor financial decisions.
Financial literacy is needed to help people make smarter decisions related to money matters. Too many people lack the basic fundamental knowledge of everyday money matters. What is more concerning is the fact that many children and adolescents are not getting taught valuable lessons about money at home or at school.
As a Certified Financial Planner professional and a parent, the topic of financial literacy is very important to me as I work to try to educate my clients and my children. I have learned from my own personal experiences about managing money that financial planning is a lifelong process. Learning about money matters is also a lifelong process.
Financial education does not have to occur in a classroom or through structured activities. Financial literacy improves through real world application of basic money related principles. Parents, teachers, and other role models provide learning experiences about money throughout different aspects of the life experience. The ultimate goal of financial literacy should always be more than just education. The main purpose of financial literacy programs is to promote positive application of the knowledge related to money matters.
Scott M. Spann, CFP(R), EA, MA
scott@lifespanplanning.com
The purpose of this financial literacy blog is to empower parents, teachers, and other roles models to share basic financial education tips with the developing minds of our communities. It is also designed to foster smarter financial decision making for parents and teachers themselves. Children learn through observation. It is impossible to instill positive financial behaviors in them when the adults in their lives are making poor financial decisions.
Financial literacy is needed to help people make smarter decisions related to money matters. Too many people lack the basic fundamental knowledge of everyday money matters. What is more concerning is the fact that many children and adolescents are not getting taught valuable lessons about money at home or at school.
As a Certified Financial Planner professional and a parent, the topic of financial literacy is very important to me as I work to try to educate my clients and my children. I have learned from my own personal experiences about managing money that financial planning is a lifelong process. Learning about money matters is also a lifelong process.
Financial education does not have to occur in a classroom or through structured activities. Financial literacy improves through real world application of basic money related principles. Parents, teachers, and other role models provide learning experiences about money throughout different aspects of the life experience. The ultimate goal of financial literacy should always be more than just education. The main purpose of financial literacy programs is to promote positive application of the knowledge related to money matters.
Scott M. Spann, CFP(R), EA, MA
scott@lifespanplanning.com
Kids and Money Matters: The Journey Begins
Money matters! Financial education matters too!
The early lessons that children and adolescents learn about money lay the foundation for a lifelong relationship with money. Everybody has a unique view towards the concept of money. No matter what your personal relationship and past experiences with money may be, you cannot deny the importance of money in your daily life.
Personal financial management is a hot topic these days and millions of people are struggling financially and the nation's economy is struggling as well. Financial literacy and education can go a long way in helping individuals and families take control of their lives. Knowledge is a powerful part of the journey to true financial freedom. The ability to take action and put this knowledge to use is even more important when it comes to personal financial planning.
This blog has been created with the mission to empower children and adolescents to learn about important money related concepts at an early age. Financial planning education and financial literacy has been lacking in recent years. In order to educate future generations about money, parents and teachers need to educate themselves. Financial literacy requires basic understanding of the financial planning process.
In order to accomplish the ultimate goal of financial freedom, it is essential to educate future generations about basic money concepts. As this blog continues to develop over time, I encourage every reader to be an active participant. Please feel free to share your comments or stories. If you have any additional link suggestions I will incorporate them into this educational website.
Thanks for visiting this site! I hope that you will come back on a regular basis.
Regards,
Scott M. Spann
Financial Life Planner
The early lessons that children and adolescents learn about money lay the foundation for a lifelong relationship with money. Everybody has a unique view towards the concept of money. No matter what your personal relationship and past experiences with money may be, you cannot deny the importance of money in your daily life.
Personal financial management is a hot topic these days and millions of people are struggling financially and the nation's economy is struggling as well. Financial literacy and education can go a long way in helping individuals and families take control of their lives. Knowledge is a powerful part of the journey to true financial freedom. The ability to take action and put this knowledge to use is even more important when it comes to personal financial planning.
This blog has been created with the mission to empower children and adolescents to learn about important money related concepts at an early age. Financial planning education and financial literacy has been lacking in recent years. In order to educate future generations about money, parents and teachers need to educate themselves. Financial literacy requires basic understanding of the financial planning process.
In order to accomplish the ultimate goal of financial freedom, it is essential to educate future generations about basic money concepts. As this blog continues to develop over time, I encourage every reader to be an active participant. Please feel free to share your comments or stories. If you have any additional link suggestions I will incorporate them into this educational website.
Thanks for visiting this site! I hope that you will come back on a regular basis.
Regards,
Scott M. Spann
Financial Life Planner
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